One day I happened to see a huge
mobile poster. It contained a mobile and it vaguely resembled the Wrist Watch Ads.
You know how watches are advertised showing 10:10 to show off its features; this
mobile ad also showed everything. I
mean everything. It started out with
time, date, Dow Jones index, Gold rate, Facebook update, Twitter update,
message from someone, missed call from another, post update from a blog,
reminder for a meeting ………. Oh oh information overload ! All this on a
single screen! Imagine the state of your brain if you had this screen sitting
on your palm.
After slowly reading through the content all I could think was –
“Lord, Do you really want us to think so many thoughts?” What is the point of having everything
in the same one minute?? And the
people holding the phones were striking a partial runner’s pose and with cool
heavy duty running shoes on. Meaning – You got to be doing everything and going
somewhere. THAT is life.
When I was a little girl I read
an excerpt of Gandhiji’s interview. He’d said “I hate this mad rush for
constricting space and time”. I dint quite grasp then what he’d meant but now I
do! The world always gives an impression that we have to be something else
other than what we are now and doing something other than what we are doing
now.
I relate this aspect of the
world to the snake that spoke to Eve in the Garden of Eden. The essence of the
speech the snake makes to Eve is this – “You deserve better. Look at you.. you
got a dull life when you got to be doing something exciting. You are being
cheated by not having all that you can have. What you have is not enough. You
got to make something happen for
yourself.” Every human being still hears these horrible words whispered in
his/her ears again and again.
IF we yield to this we’ll
end up like a circus clown juggling bricks and plates and balls and dolls while
feeding a toddler on a high chair and laying out a dinner table for a
distinguished company of visitors. We will be doing a lot of things but to anyone who looks at us – we’ll still be
a clown; Doing MANY “important” things but basically a clown. :)
Among the mistakes Eve did,
in the most important real life story ever published, two can be highlighted in
context.
1) She was not enjoying or
rather intently savoring what she already had. She failed to recognize the
value of what she had and also failed to see that she already had everything. I
mean look at all the people going on top of mountains, standing upside down and
starving and going through tremendous pain to try and achieve what Eve already HAD
to begin with. She was communicating with God Almighty and then tosses it off
in a whimsical act of disobedience. It is scary to see people lose
out on something precious just for the heck of it.
Sometimes we need real
wisdom to understand that we already have what we need. And the right response
to it is – Be thankful always. I developed this seemingly crazy habit of saying
“Thank you God” for everything. Even
if my car conks out on the middle of the road I say “Thank you God that my car
stopped”. I trust God that something bad would have happened if I had driven on
without any problem and that I had been saved from it. A totally new
perspective opens up if we simply determine to be thankful.
2) Eve wanted something more with a blind assumption that that something will give her more happiness
and add meaning to her life.
Many times we want some things so badly that the lack
of it hurts us in our mind, soul and body. But through the years if I have been
learning one thing over and over again; it is this – God does not allow you to
have some of the things you want because He knows if you get it, it will
destroy you. And He takes some things out from your hands because if they
remained with you they will harm you.
So….. to sum up :) Eve was
tempted by the snake; now for us temptations come in through TV, Ads, Friends,
even Facebook. But despite what the world tells you, be determined to LOVE your
LIFE and savor every single moment of it. The joy may be simple but it is
permanent and the rewards are peace of mind and prosperity of the soul that is
very different and way too richer than the prosperity of the World.
God Bless.
Very well put. We humans learn only from our mistakes. Cant be happy n satisfied with what we already have n value it only after loosing it. :( irony of life it is... Your article is a gentle reminder to be thankful to Almighty for everything he has given to us. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Heena.. Love all your comments.. :)
Deletevery nice :) hey i need ur suggestn.me and my boy frnd were classmates.we liked each other and started loving gradually.he joined defence .time passed on and my parents were worried for marriage.bt i convinced them anyhow as he was nt ready for marriage.he became a well settled officer.he loves me and loyal to me.he talked to my parents and they are ready.bt he is still not ready.he wants one more year for some course.and its getting difficult for my parents to answer d society.im very tensed.i love him bt i cant see my parents like dis.what to do
ReplyDeleteHi.. I am so sorry for replying this late. Apparently if maids take leave unannounced life does come to a standstill :) Anyways my problems aside.. Coming to yours.. I think u must support your boy friend and go with his decision. This will help him in his career and also build a stronger relationship between you two. He is suggesting that you delay the wedding because he wants to give quality time to you after he is done with his course. If you rush into marriage now you may end up pleasing the society but troubling the person you truly love. I always believe that the older people must relent and give up some things for the younger ones. I am not saying hurt / trample your parent’s feelings but explain to them why your boy friend needs his time. You can take up a course or something to answer the society for the next one year. Trust me it’s just 365 days.. They will simply fly.. God bless.
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ReplyDeletemy boyfriend is lieutant in indian navy .we are planning to get married by march 2014 .by march he will be promoted and currently he is in submarines at mumbai.he is worried about accomadation,that by march he will be lieutant commander and in that rank he will be junior so it is not easy to get accomadation..is there any other options to avail madam
Hmmm... how about getting married sooner ? Maybe register your marriage before your actual wedding ceremony so he can put up his name on the roster. My friends who got married to NRIs did just that to start the visa procedures. :)
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